Anisha Bagchi

I totally understand the curiosity and excitement of wanting to know who is growing inside you, but we cannot check the gender in India. Just hold onto that sweet anticipation and bond with your little one. Whether it's a boy or a girl, when you hold them for the first time, your heart will just melt.

Please monitor them very closely. I had preterm contractions that felt like mild backaches at first, which I ignored. If you feel any regular tightening or pressure, call your gynac immediately.

Honestly, a proper period isn't possible now. I had a bit of spotting early on and my gynac put me on complete bed rest, stopping my daily walking and yoga routines. Definitely consult your doc before doing any activity if you see blood.

Some people use evening primrose oil in the late third trimester to help soften the cervix, but honestly, there's no strong medical proof. Doctor advice is the best here, so please ask your gynac before starting any such supplements.

Yaar, actually figs (anjeer) are amazing for iron and fiber, which is great for pregnancy. But since it's an IVF journey, just be a bit careful and ask your doctor about how many you should eat daily.