Sunanda Bundela

After a long IVF journey, every step felt so fragile. I chose to wait until the 14th week when we felt safe, and gently explained my situation to my employer. Choose a time when you feel emotionally ready and secure to share your news.

When I asked my MIL about this in my early weeks, she said it's just 'garmi' and completely normal. My mom also agreed that as long as there is no itching, we shouldn't worry about it.

When we were going through our IVF journey, we learned how crucial accurate testing is. Natural home tests can be very misleading and cause unnecessary emotional distress. Please do yourself a favor and use a proper doctor-approved test kit, and keep your medical team informed.

I had to travel 2 hours daily for work in a car and I was always so anxious. Just put a soft cushion behind your back and take it easy, you've got this mama.

Twins sound lovely but make sure you plan your finances first. The hospital delivery charges, regular scans, and double the baby gear can cost a lot in India. If you are opting for IVF or treatments, discuss the total budget with your doctor beforehand.