Me and my husband have started talking about having a baby and honestly i feel both excited and scared at the same time. I keep doubting if im actually prepared for all this, mentally and bodywise. How did u know u were ready?
Sweetie, feeling unsure is completely normal. Focus on what you can control, your health, a check up, talking openly with your partner. The readiness you're looking for often comes after you decide, not before.
Nobody ever feels fully ready, and that's okay. If your heart is leaning towards it, take care of your health, stay positive and take it one step at a time. A pre pregnancy doctor visit is a nice first step.
Honestly no one feels 100% ready, I didn't. But practically, get a pre pregnancy check up, start folic acid, sort out your basic health and finances a bit. The emotional readiness kind of grows as you go.
I totally understand this feeling, it's such a big decision. There's no perfect moment really. If you and your partner feel it in your heart and you're taking care of your health, that's a beautiful start. Be gentle with yourself.
I'm asking myself the same thing these days! I booked a pre conception consult just to know where my health stands, felt good doing that. Maybe start there, it makes the whole thing feel less scary.
Readiness is also a bit practical na. I'd look at health insurance, rough idea of delivery costs and saving a little buffer. Plus a basic health check up before trying. Doesn't have to be perfect, just a little planned.
