sorry if my question is not clear, my english is not great. I just want to know if we can do something to choose the baby's gender while trying. is it even possible or just talk?
If you mean can you choose the gender while conceiving, the answer is no, it is decided naturally and you cant control it. All the timing tricks people share are just myths. Focus on a healthy pregnancy instead.
The gender is determined by nature at the time of conception, you cant decide it. Please dont stress over this. A healthy baby is the real blessing, take care of yourself.