My elder one is 3 and he always wants to be picked up, especially while sleeping. Im only 5 weeks and thoda scared ki lifting him might be risky this early. Did any of u carry your toddler in early pregnancy?
I was still nursing and carrying my elder one when I conceived. Our bodies are surprisingly strong, but 5 weeks is a delicate time. Gently explain to your toddler that mumma has a little "ouchie" and cuddle them sitting down.
Since it's very early pregnancy, you should be a bit careful. I had some spotting early on, so my doctor strictly advised against lifting my toddler. Please consult your gynac first to ensure there is no low-lying placenta or subchorionic hematoma.
Welcome to the second-time pregnancy club! Usually, lifting your own child is fine because your muscles are already conditioned to their weight. But to be safe, avoid sudden lifts or carrying them for long distances. Listen to your body and rest when tired.
I completely understand your fear, I was also terrified of lifting anything when I got pregnant again. It is normal to worry, but usually, our bodies are used to our older kids. Just try to hug them while sitting down instead to keep your mind at peace.
Look, you can lift your toddler if your pregnancy has no complications, but try to avoid it as much as possible. Use proper posture—bend your knees, don't strain your back. Sit on the couch and let them climb into your lap for cuddles instead.
I felt so guilty during my early weeks because I couldn't hold my niece like before, let alone a toddler. The exhaustion in the 5th week is real. It's okay to take a step back and protect your body; your little one will still feel your love.
