We are planning a baby and my saas is saying adhik mas chal raha hai so we should wait. Im a little confused about all this. is there really anything to it or is it just a belief? curious what others did.
Honestly, baby making should be stress-free! Just enjoy some good food, keep your mood happy, and don't worry about which month it is. I conceived during a festive month and was literally hogging on sweets!
Logically speaking, science doesn't have any restrictions on months for conceiving. If your health and fertility parameters are good, you should go ahead. Best is to talk to your gynac for a pre-conception checkup rather than worrying about dates.
Actually, many elders say different things about adhik mas, but children born in any month are equally loved. If your ovulation is happening and you are physically ready, don't miss the chance. Focus on your health and nutrition.
We are also trying to conceive and even my mother mentioned about adhik mas. I felt a bit shy to discuss this with my doctor, but she said medical science only tracks your cycle and ovulation, nothing else matters.
I felt so much anxiety about all these traditional timings and months when we were planning. But honestly, when I held my baby for the first time, I realized a child is a pure blessing from God, no matter the month. Don't worry about these things too much.
