We are in 4th month now and everything is normal so far, no complications touchwood. But both of us are kind of scared ki kahin baccha ko koi issue na ho. Is it actually safe in second trimester or should we wait? Honest experiences welcome.
When we entered the fourth month, I felt so scared and insecure about doing it, thinking it might hurt the baby. But my doctor explained that baby is safe inside, and after that I felt much more relaxed and connected with my partner.
Yaar, actually fourth month is the second trimester so it is usually considered safe if you don't have any complications. Just be gentle and check with your doctor once during your regular scan to be 100% sure, no shame in asking!
Usually, doctors say it is totally fine in the second trimester if your pregnancy is low-risk. Just avoid any deep pressure on stomach and stop immediately if you feel any pain or spotting. Always best to confirm in your next check-up.
Listen, don't stress too much about this! Unless your doctor has specifically told you to abstain due to bleeding or low placenta, you are totally good to go. Just go easy and do what feels comfortable for your body.
