Can we finger during pregnancy?

Question

Bit shy to ask here but me and my husband want to stay intimate without full intercourse for now. Is this okay during pregnancy or could it cause any harm? Im in second trimester. Pls share honestly.

Pallavi Shekhawat · Answer

Well, as long as the hands are clean and you don't have a 'no intimacy' board hung by your doctor, you are good to go!

Shanti Upadhyay · Answer

Please check with your gynac once, because if you have a low-lying placenta or any spotting, they strictly advise against it.

Chintamani Annamalai · Answer

I was too scared to try anything because of my previous loss. Please make sure your doctor hasn't advised pelvic rest before you do anything.

Charumati Sehgal · Answer

Haan na, starting me tension hoti hai. If your pregnancy is normal and doctor didn't restrict you, then it's totally fine, just be gentle.

Champa Ganguly · Answer

I panicked so much thinking any intimacy would hurt the baby, but my doctor laughed and said baby is safely cushioned. Just ensure hands are clean and there's no pain.

Devika Rajput · Answer

I remember feeling so confused about this! It's absolutely safe as long as you feel comfortable, just keep hygiene in mind.

Gauri Sanghvi · Answer

After my IVF journey, we were extremely cautious and avoided everything in the first trimester. If you have a normal pregnancy, it's generally safe, but please ask your doctor once.

Sampada Goyal · Answer

Honestly, I have been so anxious about any kind of intimacy in my second trimester. Did your doctor say it's fine for you? I'm still too scared to try.