Trying for baby has become so scheduled for us that sometimes it feels more stressful than romantic. I feel guilty saying this because we both want a baby. Did anyone else feel pressure during the conceiving phase?
Honestly some months yes, some months it felt mechanical because of timing. My tip, dont put all the pressure on the so called fertile days only. Keep things relaxed and natural, stress is no friend when youre trying.
We are trying right now and honestly the calendar pressure took away some of the spontaneity for me. Reading this thread to feel less alone. It helps to know its not just us who feel this way sometimes.
Real talk, the ovulation tracking phase made it feel a bit like a chore some months yaar. We started just relaxing and not making it so serious and it became nicer again. Dont stress too much, easier said but it actually helps.
Following this because Im planning soon and curious how others felt. I imagine the trying-too-hard part can get stressful. Hoping to keep it natural and fun rather than turning it into a strict schedule.
Haha cute question. Honestly by the time we were tracking ovulation it felt more like a science project than romance, all timing and apps. But yes we had our fun moments too. Try to keep it light, dont let the pressure steal the joy.
