We are trying since this month and i honestly dont know whats the right frequency, daily ya alternate days during fertile time? Dont want to overthink but also dont want to miss the window. What worked for you guys?
The key is timing it around ovulation, not necessarily the number of times. Having intercourse every other day, or daily, during your fertile window (the 5 days leading up to and including ovulation) significantly increases your chances. It’s more about quality timing than quantity.
My mother-in-law told us not to stress about a number, just be together when you feel like it, especially around the middle of your cycle. She said to keep it natural and happy. Doctor also said focusing too much on numbers can be stressful.
This is a question best discussed with your doctor, especially if you have specific concerns or complications. They can advise you based on your individual health and cycle. Over-planning or stressing too much can sometimes be counterproductive.
Haha, if it were about 'how many times,' I'd say 'enough for two!' Really, it's about timing. Once every 1-2 days during your fertile window is what they say. Don't make it a chore, make it fun! That's my advice.
Honestly, we just focused on having sex every other day during my fertile window, which I tracked using an app. My doctor said that gives sperm enough time to replenish. Don't put too much pressure on yourselves, just enjoy the intimacy. It happened for us after 4 months.
