We started trying around 4 months back and still nothing. My friends got pregnant so fast yaar so now im overthinking. Is this normal or should we already see a doctor?
Please don't pressure yourself, dear. For some it happens in a month, for others like me, it took over a year and after a painful loss. Just be gentle with your body and don't rush, stress is the biggest hurdle when trying to conceive.
It took us about 6 months, and honestly, the wait was so frustrating! But once it happened, the severe morning sickness hit me so bad that I forgot all about the waiting phase. Just eat healthy, stay active, and don't let the monthly disappointment get to you.
My mom always said not to keep counting the months, because the more you stress, the longer it takes. She made us go on a small holiday to relax, and actually we conceived that same month! Try to ignore the family pressure and just enjoy the process.
It took my husband and me around 4 months of trying, and now I'm 6 months pregnant. Did you start tracking your ovulation yet, or are you just trying casually? I found ovulation kits really helpful to get the timing right!
Honestly, it can take anywhere from a few months to a year. If you're planning, I suggest starting basic health tests first to see if everything is fine, so you don't end up wasting money on expensive fertility clinics later. Practical planning always saves so much stress and budget!
Oh, please don't lose heart if it's taking time! I used to stress out and take a test every single month, which only made it worse. Give it at least 6 to 12 months because that's what doctors say is totally normal, and keep tracking your cycle properly, okay?