I lost my pregnancy last month and im still healing emotionally. My in laws have started already about wanting a boy next time and its honestly adding to my stress. Just wanted to hear from women who have been through this.
After a miscarriage especially, please get a proper checkup before trying again so the doctor can see if there is any reason to address. Gender selection isnt something to aim for naturally. Let the doctor guide your recovery and timing, thats the safest path.
I totally understand wanting hope and a plan after such a painful time. But the gender isnt something we can choose naturally, and chasing that can add stress you dont need right now. Heal, stay healthy, and a baby that comes will be your blessing.
There is no proven way to pick the gender naturally, those calendar and diet tricks are just myths. After a miscarriage the focus should be recovering well and conceiving when your doctor says ok. Eat well, take your folic acid, and trust the process.
I understand the wish, but please dont put that pressure on yourself, especially after a loss. A healthy pregnancy is the real goal. Let your body heal first and follow your gynac on timing for trying again.
Take care of your body and your mind, and keep faith. What is meant for you will come. I would only say heal fully and let the doctor decide when to try, rest you leave to god and stay positive.
First, big hug, I know how hard a miscarriage is. Please give your body and heart time to heal and let your doctor tell you when its safe to try again. About boy or girl, honestly there is no real natural way to choose, a healthy baby is what truly matters. Be gentle with yourself.
Beta old people say many things about boy or girl but none of it is real, please dont follow those totke. After miscarriage rest properly, eat nourishing food, and listen to your doctor about when to try. Health is everything.
