This was unplanned and im really struggling in my head about it. There is so much going on with work and our situation right now. I dont know, just wanted to hear from women who have been through this kind of decision.
Such a personal call, dont let random opinions decide for u. Consider your finances, partner, health and what you genuinely want. A doctor and even a counsellor can help you think clearly without the noise.
Whatever you are feeling right now is valid. Dont rush into a decision out of fear or pressure. Think about your readiness, your support system, your health. And if you can, speak to a counsellor too, it really helps to talk it out.
This is your decision and only yours. But please also sit with a good gynac and discuss your health, your situation, everything, before deciding. They can give you the real medical picture so you decide with full information.
I totally understand, this is such a huge personal thing and theres no easy answer. Take your time, talk to someone you fully trust, and dont let anyone pressure you either way. Whatever you decide, it should feel right to you. Sending you a hug.
