We are trying since 3 months and honestly it has started feeling like a task na, fixed days and timing. By the time night comes I'm just tired and not in the mood at all. How do u guys keep it natural and not so planned? pls share.
Haan beta, I totally understand. It gets so mechanical sometimes na when you are only tracking ovulation dates. Just plan a small weekend trip or go out for a nice dinner date, don't keep discussing baby baby all the time!
Ghar pe everyone keeps asking and it gets so stressful, my MIL was also hinting all the time. My mom told me to just dress up nicely and go out for a movie date with husband. You both need to get out of the house to feel relaxed first.
Oh I remember this phase so well, it becomes like a chore after some time. What worked for me was completely taking a break from the tracking apps for one month. We just focused on each other and actually that was the month I conceived!
Actually, I am also feeling the same pressure honestly. We try to light some nice candles and just listen to soft music to forget about the calendar. It helps a little bit to just connect first as husband and wife without stress.
Bhagwan pe bharosa rakho aur bilkul stress mat lo. Put some positive energy in your room, maybe do some light meditation together before sleeping. Take care of your health, everything will happen at the right time.
It is very normal to feel this way. Please don't put too much pressure on yourselves. Just spend some quality time together without thinking about the result.
