It is very normal for your drive to fluctuate due to all the hormonal changes and tiredness. Don't force yourself, just spend some quiet, relaxing time together. It will naturally get better as you feel more rested.
Honestly, in a joint family, we barely get any private time or talk about these things! But exhaustion and stress can really lower your drive. Focus on getting enough rest and eating healthy foods to feel more energetic.
I actually asked my premium hospital counselor about this because I felt so disconnected. She reassured me that libido drops are very normal, and advised focusing on light romance and safe positions. Definitely check with your gynac first to ensure there are no medical restrictions.
After my past loss, we completely avoided intimacy out of fear, which is also okay. If your doctor has cleared you and says it is safe, just focus on emotional connection and physical cuddles first. Sometimes just feeling safe and loved helps increase your drive naturally.
Haha, honestly, in my pregnancy, my only drive was to drive straight to my bed and sleep! Hormones and exhaustion can make you feel completely zero. Just tell your partner to massage your feet first, sometimes that pampering helps put you in the mood!
