Now that the belly is showing a little we are both unsure how to go about it without any discomfort. Want it to be safe and comfortable for me. Anyone with tips on positions or what worked in second trimester?
This is such a common question and totally normal to ask na. As long as your doctor says your pregnancy is low risk, intimacy is okay in the 4th month. Comfort and gentleness is the main thing, listen to your body.
Second trimester is usually considered fine for most couples. But it really depends on your individual case, some have placenta issues or other concerns. Best to just ask your gynac directly, they will tell you if there is any reason to avoid.
Dont overthink it yaar, it is a normal part of life even in pregnancy. Just keep it comfortable and stop if anything feels off. And honestly a clear yes from your gynac will put both of you at ease.
At 4 months it is generally safe if your pregnancy is normal and gynac hasnt told you to avoid it. Just go gentle and pick comfortable positions, side lying worked for us. If you ever feel cramping or see spotting after, stop and call the doctor.
I would gently say please confirm with your gynac first. In my case I had some placenta low lying issue so I was told to avoid it. Every pregnancy is different so a quick word with the doctor keeps you safe.
