Got married 4 months ago and both of us feel kind of ready now. I really dont know where to start, like what to check first, diet, doctor visit etc. Would love to hear how you all planned it.
We just got married and are thinking about this too, so I feel you. I read it is good to start folic acid and do a basic health check before trying. Taking it slow and talking openly with each other helped us feel ready.
Dont put too much pressure on yourselves yaar, that itself makes it harder. Enjoy this newly married phase too. Health check and folic acid sorted, then just go with the flow.
A preconception visit to a gynac is a great first step, they check your health and start folic acid. Track your cycle to know your fertile days. Beyond that, eat well, reduce stress and give it time.
Also worth planning the money side early, some health insurance has a waiting period for maternity. We picked our plan before trying so we were covered. Pregnancy and delivery costs add up, so plan ahead.
Same boat here, in the planning phase and reading everything. I started taking folic acid as my doctor suggested even before trying. Excited and nervous both honestly.
My family said take your time and dont rush the first year, but that is personal really. We did a basic health check up and started folic acid on the doctor's word. Stay relaxed and let it happen naturally, dear.
