Ever since I told my office im expecting, the behaviour changed and now they're hinting at moving me out. Im so stressed yaar. If something happens how do I even prove it?
Work stress can really mess up your health and cause issues like thyroid fluctuations, so please do your regular doctor checkups and blood tests. For the office issue, just make sure all communication about your pregnancy and maternity leave is strictly on email.
When I announced my pregnancy, I felt my manager's attitude change completely and I was given less important work. I started keeping a written record of every discussion and email about my leaves. It was so emotional, but having that paper trail really helped me feel secure.
I totally understand how heartbreaking it is when your hard work is ignored just because you are bringing a new life into this world. Please stay strong and protect your peace. Write down dates, times, and exactly what was said to you so you have clear proof.
Practically speaking, you need a solid paper trail. If they make comments or change your role verbally, follow up with an email summarizing the conversation. Keep your medical certificates and maternity leave requests well-documented.
Beti, please don't take too much stress about work right now, as it's not good for the baby. Keep calm, drink some warm ginger water when you feel upset, and keep all your work emails saved on your phone just in case.
Oh god, as if pregnancy itself isn't exhausting enough, now you have to deal with office drama! Keep copies of all emails and performance reviews saved offline. Do it before they lock you out of your system, trust me, I've seen it happen.
Oh, this makes me so angry I could eat a whole tub of spicy biryani! Don't let them stress you out, just eat well and keep a quiet record of all emails. Your health and your baby's growth are way more important than their corporate games.
