I really cant continue with this right now, my situation is very difficult to explain here. Its about a month along. I dont know where to start or who i can safely talk to, please someone help me understand.
Whatever your situation, this must be handled by a registered doctor, not home remedies or pills you find online. Go to a proper clinic, talk openly, they will keep it private and advise you safely. Your wellbeing comes first.
I really want to say this gently, please do not try anything at home for this. It can seriously harm your health. The only safe way is to see a qualified gynac who can examine you and guide your options properly.
Listen, no online trick, no home method, nothing like that. Go directly to a certified gynac, get examined and follow their guidance. That is the only safe and right way, full stop.
I know this might be a stressful time for you. Please dont take any step alone. Book a gynac appointment and discuss it honestly, they have seen many such situations and will help you safely and without judgement.
I cant give medical advice on this, but I can tell you the safe route is a proper gynac in person. Anything else is risky. Please go and talk to one, you dont have to face it alone.