Im 11 weeks and getting nervous about telling my manager. Dont know the right time or how to word it, thoda awkward feeling. Those who told their boss, how did you do it na?
Just schedule a formal 1-on-1 meeting and tell them directly, no need to be scared or make a huge drama out of it. Be clear about your maternity leave dates and how you plan to hand over your work. They will appreciate your professionalism.
Actually yaar, just do it over a casual coffee chat if your boss is friendly. Tell them around the 3rd month once things are stable, so that you don't have to hide those doctors appointments anymore!
I was absolutely terrified of telling my boss and kept delaying it, thinking they would be annoyed. But when I finally spoke to her after the 12-week scan, she was actually so happy and supportive! Just go for it, it's never as bad as we imagine.
I had such terrible morning sickness that I had to tell my boss early in the second month itself because I was throwing up constantly. If you're feeling very sick, it's practical to tell them early so they can understand your low energy and help adjust your workload.
It is best to tell them after your first trimester scans are clear. Prepare a transition plan for your tasks, and mention you'll stay active and fit to manage your duties easily. It shows you're still committed to your work.
In my case, because of early complications, my doctor advised strict bed rest. I had to tell my manager immediately to request work from home. If you have any medical issues, please discuss with your doctor first and prioritize your health over office deadlines.
