First pregnancy and honestly i feel a bit shy asking this but here goes. Im 4 months and just not in the mood much, my husband is understanding but i wonder if its something needed or okay to skip. how was it for u ladies?
No it is not necessary at all, it is completely up to you and your comfort. If your pregnancy is normal it is also safe, but there is no compulsion. Do what feels right for you both.
It is a personal choice and not a requirement. If your gynac has flagged any risk like placenta issues or bleeding, then she may advise against it. Otherwise it is safe but entirely optional.