Clinically speaking, cooked bitter gourd is packed with folate and is safe in moderation. Just make sure to remove the seeds completely and avoid raw juice.
I was so scared to eat it because some articles say it causes contractions! But my gynac said eating normal cooked karela sabji once in a while is absolutely safe, so don't overthink.
Who actually craves karela during pregnancy? But jokes aside, yes, having it in small portions is fine, just don't go drinking a full glass of bitter juice!
For normal diet, a little cooked karela is totally safe and helpful for blood sugar. But if you ever feel any cramps or pain after eating, please stop and check with your gynac.
My toddler is healthy and fine, and I ate normal home-cooked karela throughout my pregnancy. It actually helped with digestion, so don't worry, just keep portions small.