We are trying since few months and not happening yet. Hubby is a bit worried about his side of things. Just curious what actually makes the difference for conceiving, anyone been through this?
My husband is in the field so I picked up a little. Basically healthy lifestyle helps sperm a lot, less smoking, less heat, good food. For real numbers just do the semen analysis, it is a simple test.
From what my doctor explained, it is not one single best sperm, it is overall good sperm health that matters. Things like count, movement and shape together. A simple semen analysis test tells all this if you are planning.
We went through IVF so we learnt a lot about this gently over time. Please don't pressure yourselves, a proper test will show where things stand. Whatever the report, doctors have many ways to help, so stay hopeful.
We are also trying so I read a bit on this. Seems like healthy count and good motility is what they look at, not some special type. We are planning to get the test done soon actually.
Don't worry too much about the best one beta. Focus on both of you being healthy, eating well and being relaxed. Let the doctor check with a simple test and guide you from there.