Been trying for 2 months and i feel like im just guessing the days. Everyone says timing is everything but no one explains it properly. How did u figure out ur right days?
I was also figuring this out recently. I started tracking my cycle on an app and it showed my fertile days. Makes the timing much clearer than guessing.
My gynac explained the fertile window is around ovulation, roughly day 12 to 16 in a 28 day cycle. The few days before ovulation are the best chance. If your cycles are irregular, tracking or an ovulation kit helps figure out the right days.
For me with PCOS the timing was tricky because ovulation was irregular. The general advice is the fertile window but honestly if cycles are off, please see a doctor to track ovulation properly. Dont stress too much over exact days.
We just started trying and I was too shy to ask anyone, so thank you for this question. The fertile window thing makes sense to me now. I think I will start tracking my cycle quietly.