There is a grahan coming up and my family is already telling me a hundred rules to follow. Im 6 months along and honestly some of it sounds too much but i dont want to upset anyone. What did you all follow or skip during grahan?
In our homes elders say to rest indoors and avoid cutting or stitching during grahan. These are old beliefs and no harm in resting honestly. But there is no medical proof, so dont stress if you cant follow everything.
My saas had a whole list of dos and donts for grahan. I followed the simple ones just to make her happy. No need to take stress over it, do what feels comfortable.
Medically there is nothing that grahan does to the baby. My doctor laughed gently when I asked. I just rested as my MIL wished, it kept everyone happy and me calm.
