My cousin and her husband have been trying for over a year now and i can see she is hurting. I always feel like im saying the wrong thing or sounding fake. What actually helps to hear in this situation? dont wanna make it worse.
Be gentle and let them lead the talk. Dont bring up other people's pregnancies or timelines. Sometimes just listening is the best support you can give.
Please be very careful with words, you never know what someone is going through quietly. A soft I am thinking of you, no expectations, is so much better than tips.
From experience, the kindest thing is to not ask when or give advice. Just say youre there for them. The constant questions hurt the most when youre trying, trust me.
I totally understand wanting to say the right thing. Honestly just a simple I am here for you, no pressure means so much. Avoid the relax and it will happen line, it stings even when said kindly.
