13 weeks chal rahe hai aur abhi tak koi bump nahi dikh raha, mera pet almost flat hai. Mil keeps asking when it will show. For first pregnancy kab proper bump aata hai? Thoda curious hu.
Mere case mein when I was at mummy's house, even till the start of the 5th month nothing was visible. My mother used to make me sit in the sun and say 'beta, normal hai, dhire dhire baby bada hoga tabhi dikhega'. It usually starts showing around the late second trimester.
Around 20 weeks is common for first-timers, but don't eat extra sweets or ghee just to make the bump bigger or baby heavier. I did that mistake and got gestational diabetes, so just stick to healthy portion-controlled meals and let the bump grow naturally.
It is all God's beautiful timing, beta. Some moms show by the 4th month and some only after the 6th month, so just keep doing your prayers and stay happy. The baby is growing safe inside, that is what matters.
Honestly I am in my 18th week now and there is barely any bump, just looks like a heavy lunch! Did any of u also show really late in your first pregnancy? I keep checking the mirror every morning and get so anxious.
I was so stressed because till 5th month my tummy looked completely flat, and others were showing! But then suddenly in the 6th month, a cute little bump popped out. Don't worry at all, every body type is different and it's totally normal to show late.