We have been trying for around 4 months now with no luck. Im so confused about the fertile days thing and timing it right. Can someone share what worked for them, feeling a bit lost honestly.
Aim for the fertile window but pls dont turn it into a stressful schedule, that takes all the fun out. We relaxed and it happened. Around mid cycle, every other day, and just chill about it.
I am trying too and got told to focus on the ovulation days, like the 2-3 days before ovulation are the golden ones. Are you tracking your cycle? Ovulation strips helped me understand my body so much better.
Track when you ovulate, thats the key. Having sex in the 5 days leading up to and the day of ovulation gives the best chance. If cycles are irregular or its taking long, a quick chat with a gynac sorts out a lot.
If your cycles are regular the mid cycle days are best. But with pcos like me, ovulation can be all over the place, so the simple calendar math didnt work for me. I had to track properly and even get the doctors help, so dont feel bad if it takes time.
The fertile window is the few days before and around ovulation, roughly day 12 to 16 in a 28 day cycle. I used an ovulation tracker app and it really helped me figure out my days. Every couple of days during that window works well.
