Just got my positive and im so excited but also nervous. Family is asking but i keep hearing people wait till 3 months before telling everyone. When did you all announce it?
Most people wait till after the first trimester, around 12 weeks, when the risk settles a bit. We did the same both times. But honestly its a personal choice, tell people when you feel ready.
After our IVF journey we waited till the second trimester and a good scan before sharing. It felt safer for our hearts. There is no right time, just whenever you feel comfortable announcing.
I told close family early but waited for work until after 12 weeks and my scan. Practical reason was to plan my leave. Do what suits your situation, no rush.
After my earlier loss I chose to wait longer before telling anyone, it gave me peace. Please dont feel pressured by others timelines. Share only when your heart feels ready.
