We are trying for our first and im a bit lost about the timing in the cycle. Everyone says there's a fertile window but matlab when exactly? Pls share how you figured it out.
I understand how clinical and stressful this process can feel when you are trying so hard. Try to focus on your fertile window, usually 5 days before ovulation and the day of ovulation itself, and try to stay calm.
According to medical research and my doctor's advice, the best time is during your 6-day fertile window. Ovulation usually happens 14 days before your period, so having intercourse every other day around that time maximizes chances.
I felt so much pressure during those days, but tracking my cycle really helped. We had relation every alternate day during my fertile week, which finally worked for us.
When trying naturally, timing is key. Focus on your ovulation window, which is typically 12-14 days before your next period, and try to keep things relaxed between you two.
Don't make it a chore, haha! Just track your ovulation using cheap mobile apps, and try every alternate day during that week. Alternate days is better to keep the sperm count good.
My mother told me to not stress and just let things happen naturally. But practically, tracking your fertile days on an app and trying during those 5-6 days is the best way.