Everyone said this is a beautiful time but for me its just nausea, no energy and crying for no reason. I see others glowing and I feel guilty for struggling so much. is it just me yaar or do others feel this too?
Uff, tell me about it! Carrying twins felt like my body was a construction site open 24/7. Hormones, extra weight, and zero sleep can make anyone feel miserable, but remember, it's just a phase. Soon you'll be holding your baby and all this struggle will feel like a distant dream.
Haha same here, I am in my 36th week and honestly feel like a rolling potato! Between the heartburn, backache, and waking up to pee 10 times, it's a miracle we keep smiling. It's hard because growing a human is literally extreme sports, hang in there!
My grandmother used to say that our body is putting all its energy into making the baby's little heart and bones, which is why we feel so drained. Still, if you find it too hard to manage, please consult your doctor. Keep drinking warm milk and take proper rest.
I completely understand, dear. My first trimester was so tough that I shifted to my parents' house, and honestly, my mother's pampering and ghar ka khana saved me. Pregnancy takes a huge toll physically, so please allow your family to take care of you right now.
I know how exhausting it is, but please listen to your body. If you feel the difficulty is too much, like severe pain, continuous vomiting, or heavy dizziness, please speak to your gynac. Sometimes low hemoglobin or other issues can make you feel extra weak, so get checked.
Balancing a high-pressure job with constant nausea and back pain made me question how women did this for centuries. It's hard because our lifestyle doesn't stop, but you must delegate work. Take sick leaves, sleep early, and set strict boundaries at office for your own peace.
It is perfectly okay to find it hard and vent about it. Even after my miscarriage, when I got pregnant again, I was physically exhausted and constantly worried. Your feelings are completely valid, so please don't pressure yourself to be 'happy' all the time.
Please don't feel guilty for feeling this way, pregnancy is incredibly hard work for the body. The rapid hormonal changes affect your sleep, mood, and digestion all at once. Just take it one day at a time, eat simple food, and rest as much as you can.
