Been trying since almost a year now and still nothing, har month hope hota hai then disappointment. Both of us checked once and reports were ok-ish. What all reasons can be there yaar? Feeling low these days.
I am also in the same boat, trying to conceive and sometimes it feels very heavy. My doctor said it can take up to a year for normal couples, so we are trying to stay patient. Sending you gentle prayers.
Honestly, tracking dates and temperature was exhausting, and now in my 3rd trimester, carrying this huge bump is another level of exhausting! Sometimes it just takes time for the stars to align. Hang in there, and use this time to sleep as much as you can!
I can completely relate to this struggle as we also had to wait for almost a year. I am finally pregnant now but those negative test months were so hard. Have you already consulted a doctor or started tracking your cycle?
I used to cry every month when my period arrived, thinking something was wrong with me. But then my gynac explained it takes time, and we conceived naturally once we stopped stressing. Please don't lose hope, it is very common for it to take a few months.
Don't jump to expensive fertility clinics immediately. Start with simple changes like eating home-cooked food, going for daily walks, and tracking your ovulation days with a cheap strip. Sometimes just reducing stress and checking basic thyroid levels does the trick.
Conceiving can take some time, so try to be gentle on yourself. I struggled for a while and later had a C-section delivery, which also taught me to trust my body's timeline. Just take it one step at a time and focus on your health first.