Been trying since almost a year now and nothing yet. My reports look fine, my husbands also. Just trying to understand what all reasons can cause this so i know what to check. feeling a bit low about it na.
For me PCOS was the reason ovulation was not regular. Once we figured that out and got help, things improved. So dont assume the worst, a doctor can find the actual reason which is often treatable.
Listen, instead of worrying about the why, go to a good fertility doctor and get both of you tested. Half the time it is something simple they can treat. Action helps more than overthinking, trust me.
There can be so many reasons, hormonal, PCOS, tubes, sometimes it is the male factor too, and sometimes no clear cause. After my IVF journey I learnt it is never one person's fault. Please be kind to yourself and get a proper evaluation done as a couple.
I totally understand how heavy this question feels. Please dont carry the guilt, it is so common and so often fixable. Get checked, lean on your partner, and take it one step at a time, you are not alone.