Chitra Tripathy

Listen, don't focus on finding out the gender because it's completely illegal in our country and not allowed at all. Focus on your health and keep yourself happy. Boy or girl, the baby will be your heartbeat, so just cherish this beautiful phase.

I am also quite new to this, but yes, I have read that pre-cum can definitely cause pregnancy. If you both are planning to conceive, it is such a beautiful phase, but if not, maybe use a condom to be safe.

Actually, fetal 2D echo is done between 18-24 weeks to detect any congenital heart issues early. My doctor explained that it's highly recommended if there's any history, IVF pregnancy, or just as a routine screening nowadays. It's safe and non-invasive, just like a regular scan.

Eat well and don't stop moving completely unless your doctor advised bed rest. I did light 15-minute walks in my first month, but only after getting the green light from my doctor.

Honestly, even a little bit of second-hand smoke is very bad for the baby's developing lungs. Keep your home fresh with natural air, but if you feel chest tightness or breathing trouble from exposure, please contact your doctor immediately.