My husband is sweet but he genuinely doesnt know what i need right now, and i also dont know how to tell him. mood swings, tiredness sab ho raha hai. ladies whose partners were supportive, what did they do that actually helped? want to show him.
Honestly, he needs to step up and share the mental load. Cooking, cleaning, and just being understanding when you are tired should be his default setting now, not a favor.
After our long IVF struggle, my husband was so gentle and patient with my mood swings. Just having him sit with me and hold my hand made me feel so secure and loved.
He should help you stay relaxed by giving a nice warm foot massage or making herbal tea. But if you feel sudden severe pain or discomfort, he should be quick to take you to the doctor.
Since I had severe bleeding issues, my husband had to be very alert and practical. He made sure we had our doctor's emergency number on speed dial and kept the hospital bags ready early.
He should be ready for midnight food runs! Honestly, my husband's main job right now is keeping the fridge stocked with ice cream and bringing me hot samosas when I crave them.
He needs to sit down with you and plan the finances for delivery. Understanding the hospital packages, insurance, and medical costs is the best way he can show support right now.
