20 weeks chal raha hai and everyone at ghar keeps guessing based on my pet shape and cravings haha. I know they dont tell us here legally but matlab is there any real way to know? Just curious yaar, ladka ho ya ladki dono chalega.
I know how the curiosity can drive you crazy, I literally spent hours googling every single symptom during my pregnancy! But actually there is no scientific way to know beforehand in India. Try to breathe and don't let the guessing game stress you out.
Having lost a baby before, I only prayed for a healthy child, girl or boy didn't matter to me at all. Symptoms like morning sickness or belly shape are just myths, please don't rely on them. Just pray for a safe delivery and a healthy baby.
With my PCOS history, conceiving itself was a huge struggle, so I never thought about the gender. The old myths about cravings or heartbeats telling the gender are not scientifically proven. Focus on your regular scans and safe growth.
I remember feeling so curious about this when my baby was inside me, it is such a beautiful feeling. When I finally held my baby in the delivery room, all those guesses didn't matter at all. Just wait for that magical moment, it is worth it.
Honestly, don't stress too much about all these old wives' tales, they are just for fun! Whether it's a boy or girl, you'll only know at delivery since gender tests are illegal here. Just enjoy the suspense and buy neutral colours!
