Im 31 and everyone around me keeps saying im getting late. We are not fully ready yet but the pressure from saas is too much. Honestly want to know is there really a perfect age or it's just people talking?
Listen, don't stress too much about age! While biological peak is in your 20s, so many women have perfectly healthy babies in their 30s too. Whenever you feel emotionally and financially ready, that is the perfect age for you.
From a practical perspective, being financially stable and settled in your career makes a huge difference. I had my baby at 32, and having that financial cushion and maternity leave planned really reduced my stress. Don't rush into it just because of societal pressure; plan when you are ready.
I had my baby at 28 and had a super smooth normal delivery, but I have friends who delivered at 35 and did just as well. The most important thing is your fitness level, a healthy lifestyle, and a positive mindset. Age is just a number if your body is healthy.
Biologically, early 20s to early 30s is generally considered easier, as risk of complications can increase after 35. I had my first baby at 37 and faced some high-risk complications that required constant doctor visits. If you are planning a pregnancy in your mid-30s, just make sure to consult a doctor first for a health checkup.
Honestly, there is no single perfect age because everything happens according to God's beautiful timing. Whether you are 22 or 35, just stay positive, take good care of your health, and trust that you will become a mother when the time is right.
