My husband is very loving but totally blank about what im going through, thinks im just being moody. I want to share something with him so he understands better. What did you wish your partner knew?
Men should know that pregnancy is a complete emotional and physical roller coaster for the mother. They need to be there to validate her tears, hold her hand, and remind her that she is doing an amazing job even when she feels overwhelmed.
Men must understand that a pregnant wife needs complete rest and nutritious food. Instead of letting her do all kitchen work, they should help her, or make warm ginger water for her nausea. Taking care of her health is their biggest duty now.
With two babies inside, I was a walking volcano! 😂 Men need to know that mood swings are real, and keeping a stock of her favorite snacks is a survival skill for them. Also, foot massages are not optional!
Haan, bilkul sahi baat hai. Husbands ko samajhna chahiye ki hum jaanbujhkar nakhre nahi kar rahe, body me sach me bahut hormonal changes hote hain na. Unhe bas thoda patient hona chahiye aur ghar ke kaamo me help karni chahiye.
Even in a joint family with my saas and mom around, I needed my husband's support the most. Men should know that sometimes a wife just wants to complain to him without being judged by the elders. Just listening to her makes a huge difference.
They need to know the warning signs and be active partners. My husband had to be on high alert during my high-risk pregnancy to drive us to the hospital when emergency arose. They must know the doctor's number and keep all medical files organized.